Menampilkan postingan dari Agustus, 2018




Accepting defeat, never been easy for most of us. Of course, we want to come out as the winner, since that's the only reasonable cause for us to be in the competition.

Come to think of it, the last time I tried to make peace with myself, looking back to 1, nearly 2 years ago. At that time, I had to know my place and back up from the competition, coming out as, somewhat, a loser. The first few hours or days was painful, but as I gave time to it, turns out it self healed.

I always believe in a mechanism of self heal, abbreviated to DABDA, Denial Anger Bargaining Depression Accepting. Give it a sufficient time for the grief to heal, and you will be back to your old, energetic self.